(young single men) Need To Know
Career Women Good Candidates For Marriage?
a Christian Man Should Find and Love a Woman
a Godly Woman
to Develop a New Attitude About Dating
a Christian Husband Submit to His Wife?
College Women Be Submissive?
Ways Career Wives Are A Disadvantage To Marriage and Family
Prepare For Marriage - 4 Tips
She Marriage Material?
Essential Qualities of a Godly Wife
to Know If You Have Met The Right Person For Marriage
Self Reliance in God
(A Christian Man's Livelihood)
in College or Faith in God?
no Man Anything
Ways to Have a Nice Home Without Going Into Debt
Sufficient in the Lord.
To Be Happy and Content With What You Have
a Wife Really Need to Go Outside the Home to Work?
Why Fornication is Defrauding of One Another
in the Snowball of Conformity
Christian Man Must Flee From Temptation
Role in Marriage
of Husband and Wife in a Christ-Centered Marriage
Them With Respect As The Weaker Spouse
Wife as Christ Love Church
Godly Men and Women
of a Stay-at-Home Daughter
Letter from some
a Godly Woman
(This is an excellent bible study on this issue)
on the Right Lifetime Mate
a Single Man Should Love a Woman
When a young man lusts after
a girl it takes away from the beauty of a “real” friendship from
happening. A guy who has passion and desire in his heart is not looking
on the inside of a women’s heart and mind, but only looking at the
beauty on the outside. There is nothing wrong with appreciating beauty
but there is a lot wrong when a man allows his passions and desires to lead his
“The Lord does not look at
the things a man looks at. a man looks at the outward appearance, but
the Lord looks at the heart”. (1 Samuel 16:7)
Don’t forget about how
Samson lusted with passion after Delilah and her beauty deceived him.
She betrayed Samson over and over. He only looked at how beautiful she
was on the outside and did not see how rotten and ugly she was on the
inside. You can read the story
by clicking here. If only Samson would have not let his emotions of lust take over,
he would have lived many more years and found a good woman to love him.
Just like Samson, many
Christian men are allowing their desires to lead their sensibility and
are giving into the temptations of this world. They are looking only at
what they are attracted to on the outside and not looking at the character of a lady. Real beauty comes from the heart and soul of
a person. A person’s relationship with God will tell you a lot about who
a person is.
If you have sons, I hope that
you have been blessed with the wisdom to talk to your sons about
allowing their emotions to get carried away with a young lady, who is
truly not compatible to them. Of course, not all Christian ladies will
deceive because they do have real beauty and character on the inside.
This is why it is so important to not let your emotions get the best of
you. Be friends, let God be in control of the relationship!
A good hearted, God-fearing
wife will be a wonderful asset to her husband and she will love him all
the days of her (their life). A husband also needs to treat his wife
with the same sacrificing love that Christ loved the church with.
Do not lust after her beauty
or let her captivate you with her eyes, for the prostitute reduces you
to a loaf of bread and the adulteress preys upon your very life.
This excellent wisdom in
Proverbs is letting Christian men know, “Watch out!” Be on your
guard. Don’t let a woman fool you into their deception because of
their beauty on the outside. Be smarter and wiser than Samson.
Fornication is Defrauding One Another
considered fraud because God says so!! When a person has sex with another,
who they are not married to or intend on marrying it is
fraud—it’s a scam and a ruse and sincere Christian men and women
should not be partaking in it.
this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain
from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his
vessel (body) in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of
concupiscence, even as the gentiles which know not God: That no man should
go beyond (arouse lust and sexual desire) and defraud his
brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all
such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. (1 Thessalonians
young men should not be chasing after the things of this world because
they will get caught up in its lustfulness and desires that take him away
from the love of God, truth and light.
1. To deprive of
right; either by obtaining something by deception or artifice, or by
taking something wrongfully without the knowledge or consent of the owner;
to cheat; to defraud a man of his right.
1. An unmarried
person, make or female, who has criminal conversation with the other sex;
also a married man who has sexual commerce with an unmarried women.
Fornication is a
sin in the eyes of God just as adultery is for married couples. This is
why dating is not scriptural. Dating is just a nice word for fraud.
Unmarried single people go out on a date and most of the time they end up
defrauding one another. But in God’s eyes, everyone is sinning who is
Is This a Way
to Raise Godly Sons?
Why are people,
Christians too, so nonchalant about having sex without commitment and
before marriage? It is the way they are raised to believe. They actually
have been taught that having sex before marriage prepares them for manhood
but it actually degrades their manhood! They are nonchalant because their
relationship with Jesus Christ is nonchalant.
most people have with God is felt through the eyes of someone else. Some
churchgoers have a relationship with God thru the pastor and sons and
daughters through the eyes of their parents, peers and pastors. But this
is the problem. Christ Ones must have their own growing, learning,
spiritual relationship with Christ. If they did they would be more apt to
follow God’s instruction for their Christian lives.
commitment and love means nothing. Its just sex. The bible clearly
lets us know that fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.
Fornication hurts people physically, emotionally and spiritually.
younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as
sisters, with absolute purity! (1 Timothy 5:1-2)